Bodysex Takes Everything You Have
As we planned our last Bodysex retreat, I signed the largest deal of my life. It felt just like Goop: I was profoundly uncomfortable, second-guessing everything yet clear that I would move forward. I couldn’t miss the opportunity to represent Betty’s message of...
Vulvas are Pure Beauty
I’d licked, sucked, and entered plenty of vulvas but until my first Bodysex retreat I hadn’t ever just gazed at them. I hadn’t experienced simply taking in their shape, folds, and colors. I like vulvas. I like the texture of vulva skin. I like sliding my fingers on...
I Left My Self-Doubt in the Circle
I am in a life long relationship. We’re the same age and met in our early twenties. In our mid fifties each of us started to feel a nagging need for personal growth and self-exploration. We both were looking for an adjustment to our life choices and routines. We both...
Bodysex was My Way Home
“I did not come. Again. Geez, how can this be so difficult. I used to like sex – right!? In fact, I have no idea. Maybe I just liked the idea of sex. Back in the day. Before three kids and a decade of marriage. For some reason, orgasm is suddenly more important than...
My Bodysex Experience
Our Bodysex coaches wrote about a meaningful Bodysex workshop experience. We're inspired. Browse the links below to read the full post.Anything I Do to Any Part of My Body will be Done Solely for MY PLEASURE Bodysex showed me that sexuality has no age limit and...
I Had Followed My Heart and Found My Purpose in Life
I don’t believe that ones true calling or life purpose is always immediately known, but rather something that resonates subtly in the background like distant echos. Throughout life there may be persistent signs or feelings that point toward ones purpose, and over...
Anything I Do to Any Part of My Body will be Done Solely for MY PLEASURE
I am training to become a Bodsex Leader. This summer I attended the Bodysex workshop, as an assistant, to complete part of the certification process. Before arriving at the workshop, I had a serious case of nerves about maneuvering around my large goddess belly while...
It was the Beginning of my It’s Never Too Late
I attended the second to last workshop that Betty and Carlin held in November 2019, not fully understanding until later that it was the beginning of my it's never too late, nontraditional, slowly unfolding, challenging, exciting journey to understanding and being...
Female Ejaculation is a Real Response
We share the ins and outs of female ejaculation.
Make a Date with Yourself
The body will ask for pleasure. If we say no, it stops asking. Then we need to consciously reconnect to the body.
Getting My Vag Back
Carlin shares her journey as she recovered from a yeast infection after getting intravenous antibiotics to treat a spider bite. It took her 3 weeks of stimulation to move from pain to pleasure.
How Do I Know When I’m Done?
Women are capable of endless pleasure. It's different for each women.
Releasing Sound Increases Pleasure
When we release sounds, we breathe more - take in more oxygen - and give them body feedback: we are experiencing pleasure.
My First Bodysex Workshop
I’d just clicked the pay now button on a Bodysex invoice. My heart was racing, I’d really done it, I’d really committed to this event. I knew I had to do it quickly because I know how I talk myself out of things, especially if the main person benefiting is me. That...
Ashes: How Bodysex® & The Bodysex® Sisterhood Handle Trauma
I have a small jar of ashes on my hallway table - the first thing I see when I walk through my door. They belong to our founder, creator of Bodysex®, “mother of masturbation,” Dr. Betty Dodson®. They are a gift from Carlin Ross to the Bodysex Leaders when we complete...