Arousal
We share our experiences with arousal. Browse the links below to read the full post.My Arousal " For me, arousal can be an end in itself. I can just enjoy it without having to do anything about it.".by Laura BogushExcitation "For me, touch can be a way to tap into my...
My Arousal
I love feeling sexually aroused. My vulva feels warm and tingly. My breath and heartbeat quicken. My senses are alert.The sun shines brighter.Every aroma smells robust,My skin welcomes every touch.Foods taste delicious. I feel alive. Arousal isn’t a necessarily a...
Bodysex Is A Healing Force
As I packed my bags for our upcoming workshop, there was a certain heaviness that I couldn’t shake. Usually, I feel excited to meet the women and get a change in scenery. However, our new normal is crisis and chaos - unknown actors and undefinable risk. How would it...
Arousal: What It Is and It Is Not
Ugh, arousal even trying to think about my arousal, makes me groan and roll my eyes. Who talks about such things. What the hell is arousal anyways? Arousal, desire, sex drive, libido all seem like a complex mumbo gumbo word problem. Breathe, well in true nerd...
Waves of Arousal
The timing of this blog couldn’t be any more perfect. Recently, I decided to stop taking birth control. I’ve had my share of experiences with birth control for over a decade now. I had an I.U.D for three years and started to have anxiety about the tiny plastic...
Arousal Is Interesting
In 1992, just before the ninth grade I got braces. And headgear, which I was told to endure for 22 hours a day, but only wore at night because I just couldn’t wear the contraption to school. My orthodontist hung polaroids of his patients in their various stages of...
Excitation
Céline wrote in German.Use Google translate in the Chrome browser to read in English or another language Erst Mal scheint Erregung ein ganz einfaches Thema zu sein Ich erkenne einen für mich sexuell relevanten Reiz und werde erregt. Sprich meine Genitalien...
Feeling Full and At Ease
I always think of a word to sum up a Bodysex Workshop. My word for May’s workshop is ease: “to be free from something that pains, disquiets, or burdens.” The day before the workshop, there were some bumps. Carlin’s flight was late which made getting the equipment to...
Penetration
We share our experiences and preferences for penetration. Browse the links below to read the full post.I Got a Lot Wrong Before I Got It Right "Now I know that I can absolutely enjoy penetration during sex and not want a man to be the one doing it."by Lisa...
My Experience with Penetration
I remember penetrating myself with my fingers for the first time when I was 3 or 4 years old while taking a bath. “Mommy, I found a hole in my vulva and it’s not where my poop comes out.” “That’s your vagina,” my mother replied matter-of-factly. “It’s the place where...
Penetration – Zirklusion
Céline wrote in German.Use Google translate in the Chrome browser to read in English or another language Penetration bedeutet per Definition: das Eindringen oder Durchdringen von etwas. Wenn etwas durchdringt, durchdringt es etwas anderes. Ich mag diesen Begriff...
A List of Things That Have Been Inside of My Vagina
Q-tips - when I was in early elementary school, this was more exploration than turn on. Tampons - When organic tampons came on the market I only bought those. And once, I got some organic ones from Target and took them on a trip to a remote location in Arizona, far...
Penetration: Pain or Pleasure?
It is so funny that I never thought while exploring my body as a young teen, that putting my fingers in my vagina or using a tampon was self-penetration. Well, of course it was. I eventually explored self- penetration with makeshift dildos such as empty roll-on...
I Got a Lot Wrong Before I Got it Right
“I enjoy penetration, therefore I am attracted to men.” It took me a long time to realize I could consider any response to this statement other than “yes.” I was raised to believe all humans, myself included, were inherently heterosexual. Male-female attraction was...
Penetrate Yourself First
I was a frustrated virgin. I had gone to college without having had penetrative sex and decided that not only did it mean I was undesirable but that there was something wrong with me. That was affirmed by the first person I hooked up with. When I told him I was a...