Spring Bodysex Retreat

Spring Bodysex Retreat

Leading my spring Bodysex retreat was easeful and sweet. Not on purpose, I’ve ended up with a hot pink, gray, and yellow color theme which makes the space feel rather dreamy. Here are some of my takeaways from the weekend.  Participating in a Bodysex Retreat is an...
Parenthood

Parenthood

Part One: Becoming Parents “Do you get to choose how many kids you have?” my 7 year old niece asked me last week.  “Sometimes,” I replied. She cocked her head at me.  “I wanted 2 daughters, I had one, and I ended up with none,” I said. Her mouth fell open.  ...
As Long as We’re Still Breathing We Have The Power To Change

As Long as We’re Still Breathing We Have The Power To Change

When I was 17, my mom’s boyfriend’s 15 year old son climbed on top of me one night and started kissing me. His actions would launch a short affair that was, for the most part, my sex education – the ground for which I learned things about sex I hadn’t known...
Multiple Orgasms are a Mindset as Much as Anything Else

Multiple Orgasms are a Mindset as Much as Anything Else

Because it’s not a matter of “if,” but “right stimulation for the right amount of time,” multiple orgasms are a mindset as much as anything else. I’m not necessarily waiting to have sex until I feel “turned on.” I might be turned on before I start or I might cultivate...
Orgasm for Survival

Orgasm for Survival

Orgasm.  The brink.  The edge.  The what’s so of our world.  Both the stir and cauldron of creation.  The hallway of myth making. We use it to bring us to our knees and then to stand back up again.  To process.  To engender.  To behold.  To not only resist wrong...