How Do I Know When I’m Done?
Women are capable of endless pleasure. It's different for each women.
Releasing Sound Increases Pleasure
When we release sounds, we breathe more - take in more oxygen - and give them body feedback: we are experiencing pleasure.
My First Bodysex Workshop
I’d just clicked the pay now button on a Bodysex invoice. My heart was racing, I’d really done it, I’d really committed to this event. I knew I had to do it quickly because I know how I talk myself out of things, especially if the main person benefiting is me. That...
Ashes: How Bodysex® & The Bodysex® Sisterhood Handle Trauma
I have a small jar of ashes on my hallway table - the first thing I see when I walk through my door. They belong to our founder, creator of Bodysex®, “mother of masturbation,” Dr. Betty Dodson®. They are a gift from Carlin Ross to the Bodysex Leaders when we complete...
Oil is the Gold Standard
Betty said that lube is the #1 sex toy. Carlin and Laura talk about why lubricant is important and share our preferences.
What is Sex?
And where does it begin and where does it end? Sex is the big heading and my experience of sex are all the subtitles underneath it. Never-ending and ever-changing. Sex is a topic for most of us, no matter if we have it or not. We grow up without being taught...
How We Handle Trauma
As women, we've all experienced trauma to different degrees.
Sexual Abundance
As women, we must shift our belief system from scarcity to abundance to fully embrace pleasure.
Making Time for Pleasure is the Hardest Part of Becoming Orgasmic
“You have the most sophisticated sex organ on the planet capable of endless pleasure that never ages”. I repeat this mantra in workshops, private sessions, and all our videos. And, when the words escape my lips, I see the same look of disbelief flood the face of...
What is Kink?
Kink is sexual play outside what is deemed typical.
Betty’s Vulva Mirror
Looking at your vulva in a mirror is healing. Betty's vulva mirror has reflected thousands of vulvas. We can't wait to share this mirror at the next workshop.
Get Naked and Come In
"Get naked and come in." Those were the first words I heard. "You're Raffaella from Chile? I bet Betty you’d be the first. You’ll get certified, right?" said Carlin Ross. The entrance was a hallway with silver hangers, I chose one and left my belongings. Since the...
We Are Not Defined by Our Genitals
Our genitals don't define our identity.
A Post-Menopausal Prostitute
This is an excerpt from Sex by Design, Betty's memoir. It was early afternoon when Scarlet called sounding desperate. A girlfriend who was to join her for a paid threesome had just canceled. Although she’d asked me to do a double with her several times in the past,...
The Internal Clitoris
You have the most sophisticated sex organ on the planet capable of endless pleasure that never ages.