The Basic Structures of Your Vulva

The Basic Structures of Your Vulva

Betty has championed the distinction of “vulva” vs “vagina” for decades and there’s a very important reason.  Your vulva is your clitoral glans, inner and outer labia and your vaginal opening.  Your clitoris exists solely for pleasure. ...
My Go To “Trick” for Orgasm

My Go To “Trick” for Orgasm

One of the first emails is from a gal writing for a woman’s magazine: They are doing a piece on how women can have the best orgasms/sex life possible from “experts.” I get right to it. The last question is: “What is your own go-to trick when it comes to reaching an...
Examples of Unbroken Hymens

Examples of Unbroken Hymens

I never had a hymen…Betty never had a hymen.  When I shared with my mother that hymens thin out and break apart with the release of estrogen during puberty, she was relieved.  She was a virgin when she got married and always wondered why she didn’t bleed...
The Variation of Clitoral Hoods

The Variation of Clitoral Hoods

This graphic charting the variation of clitoral hoods was posted on a tumblr blog – it was created by a 22 year-old guy who’s currently restoring his foreskin and opposed to infant circumcision.  He wondered whether clitoral hoods followed the same range...
The Range of Vulva Styles

The Range of Vulva Styles

Back in the 70’s, during the Genital Show & Tell ritual in her Bodysex workshops, Betty started identifying the “style” of each vulva using architectural styles as a reference: Classical, Gothic, Modern, Renaissance, Baroque, and the Heart. The...
The Best Use of Your Vibrator

The Best Use of Your Vibrator

Teaching is about repetition so here I go again saying the same thing once more with different words. There seems to be no “common sense” when it comes to women’s orgasms because most of us demand instant success the American way…add hot water and stir. Or we are...