Penetrating Your Vagina for the First Time

Penetrating Your Vagina for the First Time

You will need a few basic items. If at all possible set aside at least an hour in a warm room that’s completely private. Turn off the phone and put your cell phone in another room. Wash you hands and make sure you have smooth clean fingernails. 1. For your...
Our Sexuality is a Crucial Element in Our Personal Balance

Our Sexuality is a Crucial Element in Our Personal Balance

Last week, I facilitated a private Bodysex session and when we finished, as usual as always, I had this feeling that these sessions give me a unique chance to closely observing the orgasm. And particularly, observing the lack of orgasm.  I recalled what old...
Post-Abuse My Vagina is Chronically Tight & Dry

Post-Abuse My Vagina is Chronically Tight & Dry

Dear Betty, As a child and early teen I experienced sexual force by an adult repeatedly. I would squeeze my vagina very tight to prevent penetration. It only angered the adult and ultimately did not prevent him. As a result when I finally had sex with my someone in my...
First Time Orgasm

First Time Orgasm

Most young girls will begin by using their hands and massage oil. A young woman who has a history of little or no masturbation and has reached her mid to late-20s and is looking for her first orgasm, a battery driven vibrator can be a good choice. There are many of...
Bodysex is Individual Sex with One

Bodysex is Individual Sex with One

From the moment I start thinking about the date for the Bodysex, it starts the ritual. The sensation is to keep alive the ceremony more than replicating a workshop. It’s something that connects me to the journey of wisdom that Betty Dodson launched in the 60s, and I...
The Basic Structures of Your Vulva

The Basic Structures of Your Vulva

Betty has championed the distinction of “vulva” vs “vagina” for decades and there’s a very important reason.  Your vulva is your clitoral glans, inner and outer labia and your vaginal opening.  Your clitoris exists solely for pleasure. ...