Preferences

by Carlin & Laura | Oct 31, 2025

We wrote about our preferences. Browse the links below to read the full post. How My Sexual Preferences Changed in my 20’s 30’s, and 40’s “The point isn’t to collect perfect techniques. It’s to stay curious . . .by Tosh Patterson Read...

My Preferences

by Forest | Oct 31, 2025

Choosing the Discernment of Verisimilitude Over Nescience By Way of Preferences They weren’t a bad lay, but we were quite mismatched in terms of a lasting relationship. We were fucking one night a month or so into discovering this about each other and then, rather...

Bodysex is My Preference

by Carlin Ross | Oct 27, 2025

When you devote your career to sexuality, most people want to know: what was your top sexual experience? And they think that you’re going to describe an orgy or threesome or international sex party. I’m not saying that I haven’t enjoyed those experiences; I think...

I Finally Gave Myself Permission

by Laura Bogush | Oct 14, 2025

For many years, I didn’t even consider that I had preferences for anything. “Where do you want to go for lunch?” “Anywhere is fine with me” was always my pat response. I found a way to like – or maybe a better word is accept – most anything. I accommodated the...

My Preference is to say “No”

by Kaylea Forsythe | Oct 8, 2025

I have long struggled with how to say no. My sexual preferences in my 20s were loosely defined and dependent on the partners I had during that phase of my life. I would try anything once, and there was no absolute limit on what I would do if I liked a person enough....