Anal Sex Basics

Anal Sex Basics

We should never try something with a partner before trying it with ourselves. For more information about anal sex, visit the links below: A Guide to Anal Sex from Teen Vogue A Beginner’s Guide to Anal Masturbation from Healthline Anal Academy from...
My First Live Workshop Without Betty

My First Live Workshop Without Betty

The December before lockdown Betty and I lead our last workshop together.  There was a feeling of finality in that group.  Betty’s skin and hair had turned this glowing translucent white – like an angel.  She was peaceful, calm and quite loving towards...
How to Care for Your Vulva/Vagina

How to Care for Your Vulva/Vagina

All you need is soap and water, or even just water. Your vagina is self-cleaning. It’s better to not douche, even with water. Cleanliness is important, but you don’t need anything special. Staying in touch with your own natural smell and taste is...
Bodysex: Tuning In To Freedom

Bodysex: Tuning In To Freedom

While setting up for this November’s Bodysex Retreat in Portland, OR, I was about to hang the usual red scarf over the large glass opening of my front door, when inspiration struck. Bodysex is like this. A gentle tuning in to our bodies and our intuition sometimes...