Resistance

Resistance

We wrote about resistance to connecting with our bodies for pleasure. Browse the links below to read the full post. Resistance to Pleasure: Choosing Joy When Life Breaks Down “I dropped into my body and my nervous system softened. Two hours later, I calmly...
What I Learned About My Resistance

What I Learned About My Resistance

I feel a small tingle in my clitoris and an ember of desire in my body as I drink my coffee this morning. An orgasm would feel lovely right now, a great way to start my day. Instead, I resist. My mind tells me to stick to the task at hand. I’m working on Bodysex.com,...
Resistance is Cyclical

Resistance is Cyclical

Recently, I’ve been taking a break from hormonal birth control. Soon after I finish nursing school, I will be starting a family. Ideally, I’ve struggled with fertility in the past. I think it was related to birth control. According to the latest research, it can take...
Resistance to Pleasure: Choosing Joy When Life Breaks

Resistance to Pleasure: Choosing Joy When Life Breaks

What does it mean to be pleasure-centered when everything is falling apart? Three moments from my life where I experienced resistance and learning to trust that I deserve to feel good. Touch, Arousal, Then Desire Pleasure is how I hack my nervous system when it gets...
Leading My First Bodysex Retreat

Leading My First Bodysex Retreat

With the goal of warmth and groundedness I took my time setting up my living room over a couple days and it came together fabulously. There aren’t neighbors on any side of my house but I covered the windows with altar clothes I’d purchased at the main temple in...