My Experience with Penetration

My Experience with Penetration

I remember penetrating myself with my fingers for the first time when I was 3 or 4 years old while taking a bath. “Mommy, I found a hole in my vulva and it’s not where my poop comes out.” “That’s your vagina,” my mother replied matter-of-factly. “It’s the place where...
Penetration – Zirklusion

Penetration – Zirklusion

Céline wrote in German.Use Google translate in the Chrome browser to read in English or another language Penetration bedeutet per Definition: das Eindringen oder Durchdringen von etwas. Wenn etwas durchdringt, durchdringt es etwas anderes. Ich mag diesen Begriff...
Penetration: Pain or Pleasure?

Penetration: Pain or Pleasure?

It is so funny that I never thought while exploring my body as a young teen, that putting my fingers in my vagina or using a tampon was self-penetration. Well, of course it was. I eventually explored self- penetration with makeshift dildos such as empty roll-on...
I Got a Lot Wrong Before I Got it Right

I Got a Lot Wrong Before I Got it Right

“I enjoy penetration, therefore I am attracted to men.” It took me a long time to realize I could consider any response to this statement other than “yes.” I was raised to believe all humans, myself included, were inherently heterosexual. Male-female attraction was...
Penetrate Yourself First

Penetrate Yourself First

I was a frustrated virgin. I had gone to college without having had penetrative sex and  decided that not only did it mean I was undesirable but that there was something wrong with me.  That was affirmed by the first person I hooked up with. When I told him I was a...