Sexual Fantasy is as Important as Genital Stimulation

Sexual Fantasy is as Important as Genital Stimulation

While I understand vibrators are here to stay along with other sex toys and porn, the younger generation seems to be overly reliant on technology. They forget our most potent sexual motivation is the human brain. Before being hooked on my vibrator, I’d made it...
Will Using Organic Oil for Lubrication Give Me UTIs?

Will Using Organic Oil for Lubrication Give Me UTIs?

Dear Dr. Betty, I’m 59, and I have just started to learn how to have enjoyable sex. I’ve been plagued all my life with UTIs. I’ve been warned to use only water based lubrications or I’ll get UTI’s, and/or urethritis. When researching G...
STI Makes Me Feel Like Damaged Goods

STI Makes Me Feel Like Damaged Goods

Hi Betty! I was recently diagnosed with HPV. The doctor gave me a thorough explanation about the virus. He helped me understand that HPV is more common than we think, that “almost everyone has it”, that it’s “no biggie.” He said to take care of my body and just go on...
Awakening the Clitoris

Awakening the Clitoris

After hearing countless sex histories from girls and women over the past four decades, I believe sexual repression begins the moment a parent or caregiver punishes a child’s natural curiosity for touching their own sex organs. Society needs to understand that the...