by Tosh Patterson | Aug 23, 2024 | Article, Betty Dodson, Betty Tribute, Masturbation Techniques, Tosh Patterson
I never met Betty Dodson, but she became my mentor over the years. When she was 80 years old, she shared a tip I’d never heard: use almond oil to lubricate your hands, nipples, AND vulva before self-pleasure. Fast forward a few days, and I finally have some...
by Tosh Patterson | Apr 18, 2024 | Article, Body Connection, Reproductive Health, Tosh Patterson, Women's Health & Wellness
This is the most embarrassing story. And maybe even a little TMI (too much info) but if you stick with me there’s a point. Rewind to 2010. My days were fast-paced. At that time, my to-do list was never-ending. I’d earned two promotions at work so I was part of the...
by Tosh Patterson | Feb 7, 2024 | Article, Selflove, Tosh Patterson, Vulva
I watched him smell his left fingers. He slowly sniffed the middle two. “Smell,” he said. I held his hand and sniffed his middle fingers. The aroma smelled familiar, but I could not place it. “What is it?” I asked. “You,” he...
by Tosh Patterson | Jan 3, 2024 | Article, Body Connection, Tosh Patterson, Vulva
I’ve always been perplexed by the fact that my body is covered in hair, but to be considered a desirable and feminine woman I should not have any hair on my face, armpits, legs, or vulva. And to top it off, I shouldn’t have hair on my butt either now that I live in a...
by Tosh Patterson | Nov 15, 2023 | Article, Body Connection, Bodysex, Orgasm, Tosh Patterson
Each Bodysex Circle starts with a ritual where every woman openly answers the questions, “how do you feel about your body?” and “how do you feel about your orgasm?” Before stepping into the Bodysex sisterhood, I never consciously thought about...
by Tosh Patterson | Oct 19, 2023 | Article, Bodysex, Tosh Patterson
I am training to become a Bodsex Leader. This summer I attended the Bodysex workshop, as an assistant, to complete part of the certification process. Before arriving at the workshop, I had a serious case of nerves about maneuvering around my large goddess belly while...
