by Tosh Patterson | Apr 13, 2026 | Article, Overcoming Shame & Trauma, Tosh Patterson
Why do some women struggle to say no to unwanted touch? My reflections on a lifetime of boundary violations – from forced childhood hugs to ignored sexual boundaries – and how early experiences teach us our bodies aren’t our own. If you’ve ever felt unable to protect...
by Tosh Patterson | Mar 28, 2026 | Article, Orgasm, Tosh Patterson
Can women really have multiple orgasms? I thought it was a myth until BodySex taught me otherwise. This is my transformation from desperately hoping for one orgasm to being multiorgasmic by choice. I used to wish, hope, and pray for an orgasm. I never knew when it was...
by Tosh Patterson | Feb 28, 2026 | Article, Orgasm, Tosh Patterson
2026 started with a bang: Venezuela. Minnesota protests. Greenland. Journalists arrested. This political firestorm is pulling at my soul, demanding my attention, threatening to drag me into the spiral of doom-scrolling and helpless rage. What world am I living in, and...
by Tosh Patterson | Jan 14, 2026 | Tosh Patterson
What does it mean to be pleasure-centered when everything is falling apart? Three moments from my life where I experienced resistance and learning to trust that I deserve to feel good. Touch, Arousal, Then Desire Pleasure is how I hack my nervous system when it gets...
by Tosh Patterson | Nov 18, 2025 | Article, Orgasm, Partner Sex, Tosh Patterson
What does a real orgasm sound like? My personal story about discovering the difference between authentic pleasure sounds and what porn has taught us to expect. The Moment I Discovered My Real Orgasm Sound His head was between my legs. “That’s it. That’s the sound I’ve...
by Tosh Patterson | Oct 8, 2025 | Article, Tosh Patterson
Do sexual preferences change with age? Absolutely, and mine are proof. This is how my sexual desires evolved decade by decade. Discovering My Sexual Preferences Sexual preferences aren’t fixed. I notice how mine shifted with time, partners, body changes, and life...
