I Got a Lot Wrong Before I Got it Right

I Got a Lot Wrong Before I Got it Right

“I enjoy penetration, therefore I am attracted to men.” It took me a long time to realize I could consider any response to this statement other than “yes.” I was raised to believe all humans, myself included, were inherently heterosexual. Male-female attraction was...
Penetrate Yourself First

Penetrate Yourself First

I was a frustrated virgin. I had gone to college without having had penetrative sex and  decided that not only did it mean I was undesirable but that there was something wrong with me.  That was affirmed by the first person I hooked up with. When I told him I was a...
Working Through Painful Penetration

Working Through Painful Penetration

I’ve always been a size queen and I’ve always been able to penetrate my vagina with ease. When women would share their stories of pain during penetration and how it affected their lives, I couldn’t relate…until after I gave birth.     Despite...