by Lisa Kan | May 29, 2025 | Lisa Kan, Penetration
“I enjoy penetration, therefore I am attracted to men.” It took me a long time to realize I could consider any response to this statement other than “yes.” I was raised to believe all humans, myself included, were inherently heterosexual. Male-female attraction was...
by Lisa Kan | Feb 7, 2024 | Article, Lisa Kan, Self-Pleasure, Selflove, Sex Toys
I was colliding with my “good girl” façade. I was wrestling with what I was told I was supposed to be, and the lived experience of failure that demanded I crack the façade and dance with carnal desires. I sat on the bathroom floor crying ugly tears. My marriage was...
by Lisa Kan | Jan 3, 2024 | Article, Body Connection, Lisa Kan, Pregnancy & Motherhood, Vulva
There is no dignity in childbirth. My dream of a homebirth got unceremoniously trashed the moment my baby was discovered to be in breech position with her head under my ribcage instead of down toward my pelvis, ready to be born. They scheduled me for a planned...
