You Are Not Defined By What Happened To You

You Are Not Defined By What Happened To You

I went to college a virgin. I’ve written about this in previous blogs. I was ashamed and felt inadequate. I even wrote to Betty Dodson back when that was a feature on her website, and she gave me the advice you’d expect. Be sexual with yourself first; partner sex can...
As Long as We’re Still Breathing We Have The Power To Change

As Long as We’re Still Breathing We Have The Power To Change

When I was 17, my mom’s boyfriend’s 15 year old son climbed on top of me one night and started kissing me. His actions would launch a short affair that was, for the most part, my sex education – the ground for which I learned things about sex I hadn’t known...
When the Harm Isn’t Touch, It’s Words

When the Harm Isn’t Touch, It’s Words

I don’t have any recollection of a time when I was touched without consent. I’ve thought about it. I’ve really looked. Nothing. I know that’s not the story many women carry, and I don’t take that lightly. But when I dug deeper, what kept coming up for me wasn’t touch....
Multiple Orgasms

Multiple Orgasms

Multiple Orgasms We wrote about our experence with having more than one orgasm. Browse the links below to read the full post. From Praying for One to Having Multiple: My Orgasm Story “Multiple orgasms are just the natural result of understanding how your body...
An Afternoon Date with Myself

An Afternoon Date with Myself

I tend to be “one and done” when I orgasm by myself. My first orgasm often feels good enough to “scratch my itch,” release some happy hormones, and relax my body. I usually feel satisfied, so I rarely go for another when I’m alone. Masturbation is usually just part of...
From Praying for One to Having Multiple: My Orgasm Story

From Praying for One to Having Multiple: My Orgasm Story

Can women really have multiple orgasms? I thought it was a myth until BodySex taught me otherwise. This is my transformation from desperately hoping for one orgasm to being multiorgasmic by choice. I used to wish, hope, and pray for an orgasm. I never knew when it was...