My Vulva is on Netflix

My Vulva is on Netflix

Last spring, those of us in who are members of Betty Dodson’s “army of orgasmic women” knew that Betty and Carlin were working on a big secret vulva project.  In early July, Carlin contacted me to ask if I’d be willing to share a picture of my vulva for the project:...
It’s Not About Feeling Better, It’s About Feeling More

It’s Not About Feeling Better, It’s About Feeling More

She’s a woman in her 50’s,lying naked on my bed masturbating.Never having orgasmed before she’s come asking for help.Sitting beside her I watch her body move as she touches herself,clearly enjoying the pleasure.The skin on her chest starts to flushtelling me she’s...
Sex During Your Period is Just One of the Reasons

Sex During Your Period is Just One of the Reasons

Yes, that’s my menstrual blood and I’m bleeding right now.  I am in my power. This post has been rolling around in my mind – I’ve been thinking about how much I love being a woman and how my menstrual cycle connects me to the tides, the lunar...
The Basic Structures of Your Vulva

The Basic Structures of Your Vulva

Betty has championed the distinction of “vulva” vs “vagina” for decades and there’s a very important reason.  Your vulva is your clitoral glans, inner and outer labia and your vaginal opening.  Your clitoris exists solely for pleasure. ...
The Range of Vulva Styles

The Range of Vulva Styles

Back in the 70’s, during the Genital Show & Tell ritual in her Bodysex workshops, Betty started identifying the “style” of each vulva using architectural styles as a reference: Classical, Gothic, Modern, Renaissance, Baroque, and the Heart. The...