Sex During Your Period is Just One of the Reasons
Yes, that’s my menstrual blood and I’m bleeding right now. I am in my power. This post has been rolling around in my mind – I’ve been thinking about how much I love being a woman and how my menstrual cycle connects me to the tides, the lunar...
Post-Abuse My Vagina is Chronically Tight & Dry
Dear Betty, As a child and early teen I experienced sexual force by an adult repeatedly. I would squeeze my vagina very tight to prevent penetration. It only angered the adult and ultimately did not prevent him. As a result when I finally had sex with my someone in my...
From Trauma to Orgasms
Every Woman on the Planet Has Been Sexually Traumatized. At best, we’ve been objectified, demeaned, shamed, guilted, and manipulated into believing that we don’t deserve pleasure on our own terms. At worst, we’ve been groped, assaulted, raped and...
Am I Asexual?
Hi Dr. Betty, I don’t know whether I’m asexual or what’s up with me. I’m a 24 year old girl. I can watch porn, get turned on and rub my clit until I orgasm, but whenever I’ve tried sexual things with someone else I just don’t get...