Our coaches wrote about their relationship with fantasy.
Browse the links below to read the full post.
Life Is Just a Fantasy
“That’s what fantasy is for, really, to help you push your self-imposed limits and find out who you really are. I’ve realized that I’m at a point where my most raw fantasies are things I would never actually do, so I feel like I’ve discovered where that frontier ends.”
by Jennifer Rahner
Perfect Day
“This particular fantasy contains no actual sex act per se. The story proposes instead a canvas of possibilities where sex lingers all along.”
by Monica Emond
Normalizing My Fantasies
“Years of guilt about needing to be hit and raped to get off had melted away. I felt exposed, tender, and tired. I hadn’t known this normalization would happen so I hadn’t planned for replacement fantasies. “
by Emily Iverson
Kink Envy?
“So with kindness, and without shaming my mind for the lack of kinkiness, I will share some of the more sexy parts of my mind: Thoughts that randomly come to me and spontaneously turn me on.”
by Mette J
Fantasy Fosters My Self-Acceptance
by Lakota Fradette
My Dirty Mind
“If you need anything just call out my name,” his deep voice purred as he turned out the lights and closed the door.”
by Laura Bogush