The Multiplicity of Orgasm

The Multiplicity of Orgasm

I have been self sexual since early adolescence. There’s research to suggest that it takes less time for me to achieve orgasm as a result of this long-standing relationship I’ve had with myself. Even as a person who has been sexually active with myself for as long as...
Yes, I Plan My Multiple Orgasms

Yes, I Plan My Multiple Orgasms

Important disclaimer: This is what I know to be true about my body and my techniques right now, it is not what has always been true and might not be what is always true going forward. Should my body shift and change as bodies do for all the reasons, hormones, age,...
Multiple Orgasms: My Process to Achieve

Multiple Orgasms: My Process to Achieve

Because it’s not a matter of “if,” but “right stimulation for the right amount of time,” multiple orgasms are a mindset as much as anything else. I’m not necessarily waiting to have sex until I feel “turned on.” I might be turned on before I start or I might cultivate...
I Can Survive Anything with Orgasm

I Can Survive Anything with Orgasm

Since the very start of 2026, I’ve felt emotionally raw, ready to cry at any moment. There’s a tightness in my chest, a lump in my throat, and tears just behind my eyes when I think about the state of the world. The sad, inevitable end of an important relationship is...