Bodysex is My Preference

Bodysex is My Preference

When you devote your career to sexuality, most people want to know: what was your top sexual experience? And they think that you’re going to describe an orgy or threesome or international sex party. I’m not saying that I haven’t enjoyed those experiences; I think...
My Arousal

My Arousal

I love feeling sexually aroused. My vulva feels warm and tingly. My breath and heartbeat quicken. My senses are alert.The sun shines brighter.Every aroma smells robust,My skin welcomes every touch.Foods taste delicious. I feel alive. Arousal isn’t a necessarily a...
Bodysex Is A Healing Force

Bodysex Is A Healing Force

As I packed my bags for our upcoming workshop, there was a certain heaviness that I couldn’t shake. Usually, I feel excited to meet the women and get a change in scenery.  However, our new normal is crisis and chaos – unknown actors and undefinable risk.  How...
Feeling Full and At Ease

Feeling Full and At Ease

I always think of a word to sum up a Bodysex Workshop. My word for May’s workshop is ease: “to be free from something that pains, disquiets, or burdens.” The day before the workshop, there were some bumps. Carlin’s flight was late which made getting the equipment to...
Carlin’s Bodysex Research

Carlin’s Bodysex Research

Covid lockdown happened on the heels of our Goop episode. We’d received thousands of emails – our workshops were booked with wait lists – then everything went dark.  Betty was dying and I was making healthcare decisions over the phone. With a broken...
We Were All There to Heal, to Feel Something Other Than Fear

We Were All There to Heal, to Feel Something Other Than Fear

Listen https://s3.us-east-1.amazonaws.com/dodsonandross.s3.amazonaws.com/Podcasts/CarlinNovWorkshop.mp3 We thought we’d be celebrating the first Madame President but instead we packed up and headed out for Bodysex with heavy hearts.  As my flight took off, I thought...