Claiming Myself Was Difficult

by Forest | Nov 15, 2023

“Your body is like two different bodies put onto one,” he said. At that time, he was the hottest guy I’d ever dated. Tall, blonde, bright blue eyes. I was 27 and my family loved him.  “Your upper body is so tiny, bony even, and your lower body is like kinda big,” he...

Self-hatred for Our Bodies is a Form of Bigotry.

by Mette J | Nov 15, 2023

In a Bodysex workshop we start out answering these two questions: How do you feel about your body? How do you feel about your orgasm? It is a great way to open! The leader starts sharing, and one by one each participant continues. The leader holds space, and then we...

My Body. My Orgasm.

by Tosh Patterson | Nov 15, 2023

Each Bodysex Circle starts with a ritual where every woman openly answers the questions, “how do you feel about your body?” and “how do you feel about your orgasm?” Before stepping into the Bodysex sisterhood, I never consciously thought about...

Bodysex Takes Everything You Have

by Carlin Ross | Oct 23, 2023

As we planned our last Bodysex retreat, I signed the largest deal of my life.  It felt just like Goop: I was profoundly uncomfortable, second-guessing everything yet clear that I would move forward.  I couldn’t miss the opportunity to represent Betty’s message of...

Vulvas are Pure Beauty

by Forest | Oct 19, 2023

I’d licked, sucked, and entered plenty of vulvas but until my first Bodysex retreat I hadn’t ever just gazed at them. I hadn’t experienced simply taking in their shape, folds, and colors. I like vulvas. I like the texture of vulva skin. I like sliding my fingers on...

I Left My Self-Doubt in the Circle

by Mette J | Oct 19, 2023

I am in a life long relationship. We’re the same age and met in our early twenties. In our mid fifties each of us started to feel a nagging need for personal growth and self-exploration. We both were looking for an adjustment to our life choices and routines. We both...