Preferences

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Preferences

By Carlin & Laura

Published October 31, 2025

We wrote about our preferences.

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How My Sexual Preferences Changed in my 20’s 30’s, and 40’s

“The point isn’t to collect perfect techniques. It’s to stay curious . . .
by Tosh Patterson

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Furious to Curious

“Anger, frustration, and confusion don’t have to be blocks to my preferences. Turned inward, they are a perfect compass . . . “
by Lakota Fradette
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My Preference is to Say No

“Saying no leads to that enthusiastic yes that I don’t have to think about. 
by Kaylea Forsythe

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I Finally Gave Myself Permission

“I had to give myself permission to have preferences outside of the bedroom before I could ever define my sexual preferences.”
.by Laura Bogush

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Bodysex is My Preference

“Women are the most captivating and inspiring beings on this planet.”
by Carlin Ross

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My Preferences

“My preferences have coalesced one step at a time and sometimes half a step..”
by Forest

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