The short answer: No. It’s healthy to touch, stimulate, lubricate and penetrate our sex organ.
Motherhood We wrote about our experience with motherhood, whether we have children or not. Browse the links below to read the full post.Parenthood "I wanted 2 daughters, I had one, and I ended up with none,” by ForestI Can Mother Myself "Motherhood didn’t just teach...
Recently, Dr. Ju Young Lee built upon the research of Dr. Helen O'Connell and created a complete 3D mapping of the nerves of the clitoris. What they found was extraordinary. There are several complex tree-like branching nerves that innervate the mons pubis, clitoral...
Non Consensual Touch We share our experiences with being touched without permission. Browse the links below to read the full post.When Harm Isn't Touch, It's Words "Now I watch my 14-year-old granddaughter, happy, confident, and she’s being teased. And I feel it all...
Multiple Orgasms We wrote about our experence with having more than one orgasm. Browse the links below to read the full post.From Praying for One to Having Multiple: My Orgasm Story "Multiple orgasms are just the natural result of understanding how your body actually...
Orgasm as a Survival Skill We wrote about how we use orgasm to process our grief and create hope. Browse the links below to read the full post.How to Use Your Body to Survive 2026 "When I maintain my connection to pleasure and joy, I maintain my connection to hope....
We wrote about resistance to connecting with our bodies for pleasure. Browse the links below to read the full post.Resistance to Pleasure: Choosing Joy When Life Breaks Down "I dropped into my body and my nervous system softened. Two hours later, I calmly looked at...
We wrote about our experience with orgasm. Browse the links below to read the full post.Pleasure is No Longer a Secret " It took me years to unlearn obedience — to stop making love like an apology, to stop asking permission to feel."by Raffaella di GirolamoOrgasms...
We wrote about our preferences. Browse the links below to read the full post.How My Sexual Preferences Changed in my 20's 30's, and 40's "The point isn’t to collect perfect techniques. It’s to stay curious . . .by Tosh PattersonFurious to Curious "Anger, frustration,...
We share our experiences with arousal. Browse the links below to read the full post.My Arousal " For me, arousal can be an end in itself. I can just enjoy it without having to do anything about it.".by Laura BogushExcitation "For me, touch can be a way to tap into my...
We share our experiences and preferences for penetration. Browse the links below to read the full post.I Got a Lot Wrong Before I Got It Right "Now I know that I can absolutely enjoy penetration during sex and not want a man to be the one doing it."by Lisa...
