Women need more time to get aroused but our erection stays after orgasm. It takes 20-20 minutes for a clitoris to become fully erect.
We wrote about our preferences. Browse the links below to read the full post.How My Sexual Preferences Changed in my 20's 30's, and 40's "The point isn’t to collect perfect techniques. It’s to stay curious . . .by Tosh PattersonFurious to Curious "Anger, frustration,...
We share our experiences with arousal. Browse the links below to read the full post.My Arousal " For me, arousal can be an end in itself. I can just enjoy it without having to do anything about it.".by Laura BogushExcitation "For me, touch can be a way to tap into my...
We share our experiences and preferences for penetration. Browse the links below to read the full post.I Got a Lot Wrong Before I Got It Right "Now I know that I can absolutely enjoy penetration during sex and not want a man to be the one doing it."by Lisa...
It can be hard to give ourselves permission to receive pleasure.Our coaches wrote about our experiences. Browse the links below to read the full post.Lustful "Instead of having an orgasm as quickly as possible, I now deliberately delay it. "by Céline ManonMaking...
We wrote about our experiences with anger. Browse the links below to read the full post.Ready to Pop "No one looks me in the eye with compassion. . . No one even asks about my family history of breast cancer."by Simone FarschiMy Anger Experience "Women sharing stories...
We wrote about our experiences with menopause. Browse the links below to read the full post.Womanhood in a Broken System "At this point, if you’re having this many issues, it’s not the birth control, it’s you. You should think about seeing a psychiatrist."by Lakota...
We wrote about our experiences with abortion. Browse the links below to read the full post.Abortion: A Self-Reflection "Pregnancy can be a natural process until it goes horribly wrong."by Grace OasisThe Abortion Issue is a Red Herring ". . . our rightful place as...
Our coaches wrote about the sexual myths that held us back and how we overcame them. Browse the links below to read the full post.The Myth About My Sexuality "From the moment I was told that a vagina smelled like fish, I started washing myself with soap"by Bernadette...
In honor of her 95th birthday, we wrote about how Betty changed our lives. Browse the links below to read the full post.Everything Was Better With Betty "Slowly, I began to see myself as Betty saw me. ."by Carlin RossPleasure at End-of-Life "She would never ask anyone...
Betty’s mother told her, “Betty Ann, never be afraid to speak your mind.” Our coaches wrote about their journey with speaking up. Browse the links below to read the full post.Dear Ex-Boyfriends, Dear Younger Self "Now that I’ve found you, my younger selves, I want you...
