Women need more time to get aroused but our erection stays after orgasm. It takes 20-30 minutes for a clitoris to become fully erect.
Reconnecting to the Body and Orgasm The connection we have with our body is the foundation of our mental health. Browse the links below to read the full post.Reconnection with My Body and Orgasm "The key practice that enabled me to re-connect with my body and orgasm...
Masturbation Practice We share our routines for self-pleasure. Browse the links below to read the full post.Practice for Exploration and Discovery "When and if masturbation starts to feel like a chore, and it does sometimes, I do something to shake it up like switch...
Envy and Competition We wrote about our experience with competition and envy. Browse the links below to read the full post.How I Learned That Women Compete For Men "In a culture that prizes youth and beauty, she thought her value was diminishing as I was growing into...
Motherhood We wrote about our experience with motherhood, whether we have children or not. Browse the links below to read the full post.Parenthood "I wanted 2 daughters, I had one, and I ended up with none,” by ForestI Can Mother Myself "Motherhood didn’t just teach...
Recently, Dr. Ju Young Lee built upon the research of Dr. Helen O'Connell and created a complete 3D mapping of the nerves of the clitoris. What they found was extraordinary. There are several complex tree-like branching nerves that innervate the mons pubis, clitoral...
Non Consensual Touch We share our experiences with being touched without permission. Browse the links below to read the full post.When Harm Isn't Touch, It's Words "Now I watch my 14-year-old granddaughter, happy, confident, and she’s being teased. And I feel it all...
Multiple Orgasms We wrote about our experence with having more than one orgasm. Browse the links below to read the full post.From Praying for One to Having Multiple: My Orgasm Story "Multiple orgasms are just the natural result of understanding how your body actually...
Orgasm as a Survival Skill We wrote about how we use orgasm to process our grief and create hope. Browse the links below to read the full post.How to Use Your Body to Survive 2026 "When I maintain my connection to pleasure and joy, I maintain my connection to hope....
We wrote about resistance to connecting with our bodies for pleasure. Browse the links below to read the full post.Resistance to Pleasure: Choosing Joy When Life Breaks Down "I dropped into my body and my nervous system softened. Two hours later, I calmly looked at...
We wrote about our experience with orgasm. Browse the links below to read the full post.Pleasure is No Longer a Secret " It took me years to unlearn obedience — to stop making love like an apology, to stop asking permission to feel."by Raffaella di GirolamoOrgasms...
