Choosing to Align

Choosing to Align

Last summer I started using my masturbation practice to process some things only to remember a past me also did this, though not in front of a full length mirror with a pile of toys, oils, and lube next to me. It was in ancient times before the pandemic so I’d...
Orgasm

Orgasm

We wrote about our experience with orgasm. Browse the links below to read the full post. Pleasure is No Longer a Secret ” It took me years to unlearn obedience — to stop making love like an apology, to stop asking permission to feel.”by Raffaella di...
I Let the Orgasm Come to Me

I Let the Orgasm Come to Me

I’ve always been orgasmic. My parents didn’t get the memo that I should be discouraged from touching my vulva as a child. I remember exploring my genitals as a preschooler. It felt good. When hormones brought me orgasms at puberty, I masturbated multiple times a day....
I Can Trust in Bodysex

I Can Trust in Bodysex

“Bodysex is a labor of love”, I remind myself while packing my suitcase – my phone set to a live FAA airport tracker.  There’s nothing like having 12 women, including myself, flying in from all over the world during a government shutdown. I felt my jaw...
My Experience with Orgasm

My Experience with Orgasm

I’ve been orgasmic since a young age. Before I knew what was happening in my body. Luckily, I had parents who were sex positive and never shamed me for touching myself. Young kids are caught touching themselves, and for young girls, this often is their first...
Preferences

Preferences

We wrote about our preferences. Browse the links below to read the full post. How My Sexual Preferences Changed in my 20’s 30’s, and 40’s “The point isn’t to collect perfect techniques. It’s to stay curious . . .by Tosh Patterson Read...
My Preferences

My Preferences

Choosing the Discernment of Verisimilitude Over Nescience By Way of Preferences They weren’t a bad lay, but we were quite mismatched in terms of a lasting relationship. We were fucking one night a month or so into discovering this about each other and then, rather...
Bodysex is My Preference

Bodysex is My Preference

When you devote your career to sexuality, most people want to know: what was your top sexual experience? And they think that you’re going to describe an orgy or threesome or international sex party. I’m not saying that I haven’t enjoyed those experiences; I think...