by Laura Bogush | Oct 14, 2025 | Article, Laura Bogush
For many years, I didn’t even consider that I had preferences for anything. “Where do you want to go for lunch?” “Anywhere is fine with me” was always my pat response. I found a way to like – or maybe a better word is accept – most anything. I accommodated the...
by Kaylea Forsythe | Oct 8, 2025 | Article, Kaylea
I have long struggled with how to say no. My sexual preferences in my 20s were loosely defined and dependent on the partners I had during that phase of my life. I would try anything once, and there was no absolute limit on what I would do if I liked a person enough....
by Tosh Patterson | Oct 8, 2025 | Article, Tosh Patterson
Do sexual preferences change with age? Absolutely, and mine are proof. This is how my sexual desires evolved decade by decade. Discovering My Sexual Preferences Sexual preferences aren’t fixed. I notice how mine shifted with time, partners, body changes, and life...
by Lakota | Oct 8, 2025 | Article, Lakota Fredette
It starts in my face, tension, clench and contraction. Unrelenting, trapped in my eyebrows and my pursed lips. I take a deep breath and try to soften even a little. Maybe it’s left over frustration from something earlier in the day. I go back to massaging my vulva,...
by Forest | Sep 24, 2025 | Article, Forest, Orgasm
Once safely out of the driveway, I unbuttoned my pants, grabbed the vibe from the passenger seat where I’d tossed it as I’d gotten into the car, and clicked it on. It felt good over my jeans. Driving masturbation is a delicate balance between your inner eyes settling...
by Lakota | Sep 10, 2025 | Arousal, Article, Lakota Fredette
“Arousal” I hear the word and instantly I have parts of me blaring inside. These parts bounce around my mind, confused, looking for clues in the crevices of my brain, ruffling through old memories of things that were logged as turn ons at some point. It’s almost like...
by Carlin & Laura | Sep 3, 2025 | Blog
We share our experiences with arousal. Browse the links below to read the full post. My Arousal ” For me, arousal can be an end in itself. I can just enjoy it without having to do anything about it.”.by Laura Bogush Read Laura's Post Excitation...
by Laura Bogush | Jun 19, 2025 | Arousal, Article, Bodysex, Laura Bogush
I love feeling sexually aroused. My vulva feels warm and tingly. My breath and heartbeat quicken. My senses are alert.The sun shines brighter.Every aroma smells robust,My skin welcomes every touch.Foods taste delicious. I feel alive. Arousal isn’t a necessarily a...
by Carlin Ross | Jun 19, 2025 | Article, Bodysex, Carlin Ross
As I packed my bags for our upcoming workshop, there was a certain heaviness that I couldn’t shake. Usually, I feel excited to meet the women and get a change in scenery. However, our new normal is crisis and chaos – unknown actors and undefinable risk. How...
by Grace Oasis | Jun 18, 2025 | Arousal, Grace Oasis
Ugh, arousal even trying to think about my arousal, makes me groan and roll my eyes. Who talks about such things. What the hell is arousal anyways? Arousal, desire, sex drive, libido all seem like a complex mumbo gumbo word problem. Breathe, well in true nerd...
