by Lakota | Feb 7, 2024 | Article, Body Connection, Lakota Fredette, Selflove
“You’ll be a pretty girl when you grow up” my dad said when I was probably around 10. I felt like I was in a car driving on the highway and hit a road block as soon as I heard this. I tried so hard to be what he wanted, to be someone he could tolerate spending any...
by Lakota | Jan 3, 2024 | Article, Body Connection, Lakota Fredette, Pregnancy & Motherhood, Vulva
I hadn’t realized that I’d been hoping that my daughter would just grow pubic hair, love it, and never want to do anything with it independently until about a week ago. I sat at my computer reading through emails when I heard my daughter say from the bathroom, “Hey,...
by Lakota | Jan 3, 2024 | Article, Body Connection, Lakota Fredette, Vulva
Sitting on the toilet, looking at the newly found dark curly hair between my legs, I feel horrified, and disgusted. I didn’t ask for these hairs, these weren’t supposed to happen until I was a grown adult, what are they doing here on my 9 year old body!? Not only is...
by Lakota | Nov 15, 2023 | Article, Body Connection, Bodysex, Lakota Fredette, Orgasm
How do I feel about my body? How do I feel about my orgasm? These two questions always bring my attention and focus right into the exact current moment I’m experiencing. Bringing my focus to how I feel right now in the moment serves to help me understand what my needs...
by Lakota | Oct 19, 2023 | Article, Bodysex, Lakota Fredette
I don’t believe that ones true calling or life purpose is always immediately known, but rather something that resonates subtly in the background like distant echos. Throughout life there may be persistent signs or feelings that point toward ones purpose, and over...
